Date Idea: Valentine’s Day Advent Calendar

December came rushing into my life so quickly that I never got around to creating an advent calendar. I was so disappointed until I realized I could redeem the idea for Valentine’s Day. There is something special about building up the anticipation for an event.

When Vitaliy and I were dating, we never really liked the idea of Valentine’s Day. We always felt that love should be celebrated in small doses on a consistent basis. That’s not to say that doing something big for your loved one is a bad thing. But if you only do something once a year because you’re obligated to, they’ll likely notice.

This Valentine’s countdown will give you a little bit of both. It will allow for small celebrations as it leads you up to the big day when you can go all out. We created it together and it made me even more excited for February to arrive.

Here are a few pictures to get you inspired and you can even take a peek at some of the ways we’ll be celebrating next month. Remember, you can click on the images to view them larger.

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Celebrate: Engagement Dinner Party on Lake Tahoe

This engagement dinner party styled by Victoria of A Subtle Revelry left me wanting to throw my own. Seeing that I’m already married, it gave me the perfect excuse for an anniversary dinner party. Wherever you’re at in life, I hope this will leave you wanting to grab your closest friends and toast to life and love.

The magic of Lake Tahoe is enough to set the tone for a celebration of romance, but the fun details Victoria added took this simple dinner and made it a party. An old rowboat, a sequined bottle of bubbly, and a confetti filled table were just a few of the design elements that made me swoon. To see more pictures and further details on how to recreate this party for yourself, look A Subtle Revelry Online Magazine and the accompanying blog post.

Now that we’re all inspired to celebrate, who’s throwing the first party?

Styled by: A Subtle Revelry
Hair and Makeup: Melanie Meyer
Photography: Pictilio

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Cleaning House

This past week I had the pleasure of hearing Maxwell Gillingham-Ryan, Co-Founder and CEO of Apartment Therapy, speak at the Alt Design Summit in Salt Lake City. He said something that I haven’t been able to stop thinking about. After teaching elementary students for 7 years, he found that his most successful students came from homes that were well cared for.

I have to believe this same principal applies to relationships as well. I think that one could argue that successful relationships likely reside in homes that are well cared for. Think about it – how many fights are caused because someone didn’t hang up a shirt or put away the dishes. Just last week, Vitaliy and I almost got in a quarrel over a missing notebook.

I’m writing this today to hold us accountable. We still have a lot of boxes to unpack and things to organize. Basically, we need some order in our new home. To make an investment in our relationship, we are committing to getting our place unpacked, organized and cleaned up.

I’m not saying that having a clean home defines a good relationship, but I am saying that it can definitely help a relationship. Creating a bit of order on the outside can help gain some order on the inside.

What do you think?